Communication

On Language, Capacity, and What We Call Ourselves There are certain words we use so often that we stop questioning what they carry. They become shorthand. Convenient. Familiar. And sometimes, quietly limiting. For me, “single parent” is one of those words, or terms... This is not a critique of anyone who uses the term. Language is personal, contextual, and often deeply earned. But over time, I’ve noticed that this particular label no longer reflects how I understand myself, m

Most people encounter wellness far too late. They arrive when they are exhausted, overwhelmed, reactive, disconnected, or already in crisis. By then, the nervous system is overloaded, decision-making is impaired, and the body is no longer whispering. It is yelling.   At Holistique, we approach prevention differently. We operate from a simple but powerful framework often used in public health, safety, and systems design: the 10/80/10 principle . When applied to wellness, it ex

For Starters… I did not build Holistique because the world needed more wellness content. It already has plenty of that. What it needed was honesty, clarity, and a little backbone.   Wellness today is loud. It’s trend-driven, over-promised, under-explained, and often disconnected from real life. We’re told self-care is either selfish or luxurious, that healing only looks one way, and that if we’re still struggling, we must not be doing it “right.”   I call B.S. on that.   Lang

Boundaries aren’t barriers — they’re the quiet structure that protects your peace. In this post, we explore how to choose, set, and flex boundaries with intention and grace. Learn how clarity, compassionate communication, and flexibility can help you preserve mental balance while staying grounded in your values.

Co-parenting isn’t about the breakup — it’s about what comes after. In this post, we explore why creating a clear parenting strategy matters more than personal feelings, and how structure, communication, and respect help children thrive. Learn how focusing on stability over emotion builds resilience for everyone involved — and turns separation into strength.

Financial wellness (peace of mind) is more than balancing a budget — it’s balancing your life. In this post, we explore why financial education and open communication are equally vital to well-being. Learn how understanding your finances builds empowerment, and how honest conversations with your partner turn money from a stress point into a shared vision for your future.